let the kids be the decider of who wins and who loses; all kids want to win, all kids are competitive…..Kids learn by doing, not just by listening, and they learn by being spontaneous, creative and by taking chance. Thus, training and games do not serve children’s needs if they discourage those natural instincts and create fears about making mistakes.

“Winning isn’t everything, but the will to win is everything.”

“If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not taking risks, and that means you’re not going anywhere. The key is to make mistakes faster than the competition, so you have more changes to learn and win.”